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The Mastermind |
Introducing the 16-week Mastermind
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Have the heart-pounding sex you've always wanted, without getting divorced.
The Mastermind is designed for people like you - people who want the dream, a real love affair that lasts forever, not just something where, once a year, you take cute pictures of each other smiling and everyone thinks you're the perfect couple. But you know the truth - you haven't had connected sex, or any sex, in a very long time. The Mastermind is your easy, step-by-step guide for solving problems that are getting in the way of having a truly passionate love affair. The Mastermind teaches you how to figure out exactly what's holding you back from the love life of your dreams. |
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There's a secret to passion
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Couples Counseling
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Birth order. Nodded a lot. She said that it would help if you worked on your “interpersonal dialogue skills.”
You took her advice and stopped fighting so much about money. You worked on your active listening skills.
But the sex problems didn’t go away.
You took her advice and stopped fighting so much about money. You worked on your active listening skills.
But the sex problems didn’t go away.
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Scheduled a Getaway
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You haven’t been too busy. You don’t “lack privacy”.
You’re disconnected from yourself and each other.
So, you skip the romantic getaway altogether and opt for a weekend with friends. But when you get back home, you know that you're one step closer to ending it.
Your weekend getaway didn't change anything.
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Google Therapy
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So we turned to the internet.
We were able to find information about sexual positions and other things that sounded good, but we were still left with the challenge of initiation, feeling uncomfortable or bloated and being too tired to even try any of the ideas we read about. Things like this.
Some of these are great ideas. But they didn’t begin to help me want to want it. Or help him to feel okay about rejection when I was more involved with the kids than with our intimacy.
We were too busy to get busy.
We were able to find information about sexual positions and other things that sounded good, but we were still left with the challenge of initiation, feeling uncomfortable or bloated and being too tired to even try any of the ideas we read about. Things like this.
- Educate yourself. Plenty of good self-help materials are available for every type of sexual issue
- Give yourself time
- Use lubrication
- Maintain physical affection
- Practice touching
- Try different positions
- Write down your fantasies
- Do Kegel exercises
Some of these are great ideas. But they didn’t begin to help me want to want it. Or help him to feel okay about rejection when I was more involved with the kids than with our intimacy.
We were too busy to get busy.
What you really need are answers to your questions
- Why are you so resistant when your partner wants sex?
- Why does it feel like pressure even though you love each other?
- What is so irritating (and hurtful) when your partner wants to talk about “our sex problem?”
- What's happened to passion? You both want to want it.
You're not alone.
I wish the problems you experienced were unusual, but they are very common. Virtually everyone wants to have a loving and passionate relationship.
Plenty of couples give up on their dreams of having a great sex life. The kind of sex life that makes your friends wonder what's going on - you’re both suddenly acting like a teenagers during homecoming week.
It’s not that you can't do it … you can.
It’s very difficult to figure out when you’re literally exhausted by too much togetherness and have no idea of what to do. I totally understand that because I work with couples all the time.
With sexually-specific support you can make sense of it all.
Plenty of couples give up on their dreams of having a great sex life. The kind of sex life that makes your friends wonder what's going on - you’re both suddenly acting like a teenagers during homecoming week.
It’s not that you can't do it … you can.
It’s very difficult to figure out when you’re literally exhausted by too much togetherness and have no idea of what to do. I totally understand that because I work with couples all the time.
With sexually-specific support you can make sense of it all.
I know what you're going through - we've been there
It wasn’t actually an affair. Jim had an innocent flirtation with a friend. But still, I felt completely unhinged.
As I worked through all my feelings about it, I realized that I had prioritized everything but our romantic relationship and completely lost track of my sexuality because I was so into being 'Mom'. It was eye-opening.
We got through that challenge in our relationship and both learned a lot about ourselves. It was years ago, but I still remember what it felt like.
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Hi, I’m Dr. Jane Guyn (she/her/hers)
I was just like you - a wife, busy mom, and business owner trying to figure out how to feel remotely sexy when most of my life was schlepping a carload full of 6 wet kids in swimsuits to the Dairy Queen for a Dilly Bar. |
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Since then, I've become a PhD in Human Sexuality, a professional sex & Core Energy coach, 200-hour yoga teacher, and the author of the #1 Amazon Bestseller "Too Busy to Get Busy." In the last 10 years, I've helped countless couples develop sexual confidence using a proven 5-step research-based system.
And, my marriage to Jim has become an absolute delight. We’re more in love and have better sex now than we did when we almost got caught by the janitor at the County Hospital where we both worked years ago. Still, I haven’t forgotten how hard it was when I was in your situation.
Back then, I really wished there was some kind of instruction manual—something I could turn to that would show me step-by-step exactly how to change my feelings about sex, and the way we communicated about it so that we felt passionately in love in the bedroom AND the kitchen.
And, my marriage to Jim has become an absolute delight. We’re more in love and have better sex now than we did when we almost got caught by the janitor at the County Hospital where we both worked years ago. Still, I haven’t forgotten how hard it was when I was in your situation.
Back then, I really wished there was some kind of instruction manual—something I could turn to that would show me step-by-step exactly how to change my feelings about sex, and the way we communicated about it so that we felt passionately in love in the bedroom AND the kitchen.
That’s why I’m excited to tell you about The Mastermind.
The Mastermind is designed for people like you … people who want the dream - a real love affair - not just a fake “Happy Anniversary Baby, I love you!” Facebook post.
You’ve tried counseling.
You’ve taken “romantic” getaways
You’ve done read all the books and you’re still not seeing results.
You’ve tried counseling.
You’ve taken “romantic” getaways
You’ve done read all the books and you’re still not seeing results.
I give you tools you can use now - right now and forever - to solve the problems you’re facing as a couple - not just reflections on your upbringing or background.
The Mastermind even works if you have been through literally years of couples counseling with zero results!
In fact, by the time you get to the end of the Mastermind you'll have so many new ways to think about things as a couple, that your biggest problem will be selecting which tool to use.
The Mastermind teaches you how to figure out exactly what's holding you back from feeling connected and passionate.
The Mastermind even works if you have been through literally years of couples counseling with zero results!
In fact, by the time you get to the end of the Mastermind you'll have so many new ways to think about things as a couple, that your biggest problem will be selecting which tool to use.
The Mastermind teaches you how to figure out exactly what's holding you back from feeling connected and passionate.
Join the waitlist for The Mastermind.
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Want a romantic relationship with candlelight dinners and flowers? It's in The Mastermind.
Want to learn about something kinky - more 50 Shades than Hallmark? It's included. Want to explore tantric sex, a yoga-style method of connecting? Yes, that's there too. Wondering about orgasms? You'll learn everything about pleasure (for you AND your partner) in the course. Wondering if your partner is really the problem? There’s specific information for both of you in The Mastermind. |
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In The Mastermind, I show you the easiest ways to:
- Transform your intimate relationship
- Finally experience what you've always wanted - a life-long love affair
- Bring playful sexy times into your relationship
- Start communicating about sex and intimacy – without the dreaded sex fights
Why The Mastermind is important for you
You may be a couple…
- Who knows The Mastermind will teach you how to have the passionate relationship you desire
- Who knows it’s possible to communicate authentically and clearly about what you want
- Who, most importantly, KNOWS that unless you take care of this now, you probably won’t do anything about it -- even though it’s a very simple way to finally create the relationship of your dreams.
Sound familiar?
What's included
The Mastermind is a 16-week experience for couples, with the next session starting in the spring, with weekly group coaching and Q&A calls with me!
Each of you will get 4 one-on-one sessions with me, virtually or in-person.
The Mastermind consists of over 20 specific lessons that are divided into sections.
Every section will have a training session and a session where you actually do the work on your mindset, and embody what you’re learning!
Before you start, I'll also send you a welcome kit that includes a workbook for each of you and special things for your experience.
Intro: Intention Setting for L.O.V.E.R.s
- Set an intention for what you want, and how to make it happen
Section 1: Look Back at Your Sexual History
- Let go of the past - like that guy in high school who humiliated you when he made fun of your breasts bouncing (oh, wait - that was my life. Lee Watkins - grrrr)
- Figure out the theme of your sex life. Is it more The Walking Dead or Bridgerton?
- Figure out the 5 Lies About Sex - for example, you don’t have to be Scarlett Johansson or Ryan Gosling's twin to be sexy
- Release the voices in your head that are telling you you're not good enough
- Get your old lover - the one who got away - out of your heart and mind
Section 2: Open Dialogue with the PASSION Process
- Learn how to talk without killing each other - or wanting to
- Figure out how to show your partner love in a way that makes sense to THEM - not just to you
Section 3: Value Your Needs in the BEDROOM™
- Create a BEDROOM™ Blueprint that you can use to KEEP opening up and going deeper
- Finally figure out what really turns you on and how to make that happen in your relationship
- Find out if you have Orgasmic Shame
- Explore how to climax even if you have sexual pain or have never had an orgasm
- Discover how your mind is impacting you sexually. Are your thoughts helping you get into your body or are you "spectatoring" during intimate moments?
- Use guided meditations, yoga-style movement practices, and affirmations to change yourself at the deepest level
Section 4: Exchange ideas with your partner
- Gamify your sex life so that "who starts it" becomes a fun part of your routine rather than a power struggle that never ends
Section 5: Recommit to connection
- Make a lasting commitment to your partner
Your life depends on feeling alive and empowered. It’s your birthright. And at the core of that is your sexuality. When you gently remove the barriers to your fullest sexual expression, your confidence will soar in every area. You need to feel connected, touched, and loved.
This is a research-based, step-by-step process.
You’ll get support with each module that outlines EXACTLY how to do that.
I’ll take you behind the scenes of how I stay turned on and alive while helping other couples connect. I will give you the tools to have the intimate life of your dreams.
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You get a daily to-do list that tells you how to integrate communication and letting go of barriers in your life with ease.
This is a research-based, step-by-step process.
You’ll get support with each module that outlines EXACTLY how to do that.
I’ll take you behind the scenes of how I stay turned on and alive while helping other couples connect. I will give you the tools to have the intimate life of your dreams.
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You get a daily to-do list that tells you how to integrate communication and letting go of barriers in your life with ease.
Join the waitlist for The Mastermind.
FAQ
How long is The Mastermind?
16 weeks! The next session starts in February 2023.
How much time will it take every week?
You may want to spend 2 to 3 hours a week on the course. But no matter how much or how little time you spend on the course, just signing up will begin to improve your relationship.
WHAT'S THE COST?
The price of The Mastermind is just $2195. This price includes access to the Mastermind for both partners. If you need to spread the cost over multiple months, we've got you covered with our 3 and 6-month payment plans.
Does this price include me and my partner?
Yes! You will only have to pay once. Once you've signed up you'll get an email that will give you instructions on how to sign your partner up! If you want to fly solo, then the price is $1797.
When are the group coaching calls?
The group meeting times are as follows:
Women: Tuesdays 10:30 am - 12:00 pm (PST)
Men: Tuesdays 1:00 pm - 2:30 pm (PST)
Not able to attend the live session? Not to worry, the recordings will be available for 24 hours on the portal.
Women: Tuesdays 10:30 am - 12:00 pm (PST)
Men: Tuesdays 1:00 pm - 2:30 pm (PST)
Not able to attend the live session? Not to worry, the recordings will be available for 24 hours on the portal.
Will The Mastermind be available again?
Yes, but I can't promise that the investment will be the same! The next session starts in the spring of 2022.
Is there a scholarship available?
Email me for more information about scholarship opportunities.
I'VE GOT MEDICAL CONCERNS THAT ARE GETTING IN THE WAY...
As a UCLA trained nurse and nurse practitioner, I can help you with your sexuality no matter what's happening in your body right now. Let’s talk.
MY PARTNER IS A WOMAN. CAN I JOIN?
The Mastermind also includes specific information for lesbian couples.
I’M SINGLE. IS THIS FOR ME?
The Mastermind is open to couples, gay and straight, who are in a relationship or who are interested in having a satisfying relationship. Single men who are interested in a satisfying relationship will be added to the men's group on a case-by-case basis.
Still got questions? Just email me at [email protected] and I'd be happy to answer!
Don't just take it from me,
here's what my clients say.
"What a transformational experience this has been. It’s been a redefinition of defining intimacy, and what we are in society, our expectations, and these really outdated tropes we live on that we don’t even know we’re perpetuating that aren’t even authentic. It’s been so interesting and informative.
It’s been huge for my husband, for our partnership and our capacity to communicate so much more in the moment and leaning into the relationship where this could go as opposed to “things are happening, life is crazy, and I’m going to pull away and lean back.” - A. |
I’ve appreciated the opportunity to not only learn some things, but also reinforce some things that I was already well aware of...which will help cement me into a good relationship that continues to be that. Thank you, Jane.
- G. |
"It’s been just so powerful being in a group of women, all of us sharing such intimate things about our lives. It’s huge for me, and so touching.
The biggest thing for me has been to know that I’m okay, sexually. I see that for all of us [the women in the program], we’re okay. And it gives me such hope. Last night, we [my partner and I] talked about sex for a couple of hours. Me? Who is this person? I feel like Jane has freed me to have the relationship that I’ve always wanted. I always knew I could have that sort of intimate relationship, but I always hoped the sex would be okay. But it’s more than okay, it’s great, and that’s life changing for me. I feel really, really hopeful that I can be that person to have the relationship that I’ve always wanted since i was a child." - J. |
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"I’d just like to say kudos to Jane for putting this together. Being open and honest and sharing - my relationship with my wife is much better than it ever has been because of this."
- C. |
"I have been very grateful for this class.
There was something so comforting about being able to talk to other women about it [the material]. I’ve started this journey where it’s okay not to have this huge embarrassment and hang up about sex, which I totally have had my whole life...I feel like I’m making progress It was very comforting for me to know that other people don’t have a completely perfect sex life going on. I feel like I feel different. I feel more comfortable in the process." - M. |
"[My wife] and I have been together for almost 40 years...I wish I had done this 20-25 years ago. It’s never too late to try something new. I was not comfortable talking about this kind of stuff. So getting in here with this group of guys who were so free flowing with their thoughts and conversation was great for me, and I appreciate that…
I learned a lot, and I’ve grown a lot. [My wife] and I improved our relationship because of this." - D. |
"It was kind of unnerving to be in a class where my spouse was also in the same class, but we survived it. I think it actually helped because we weren’t able to hide anything then. And then, to see everyone else’s reactions about the other really helped.
I look at everyone else in the room and realize what the future can hold, so I hold a lot of hope for that. It's just been so great listening to everyone." - C. |
"I’m the free-est I’ve ever been with my wife. I am 99% all myself...I have that with my wife, and I’m so grateful."
- M. |
"[My partner and I] are more intimate, and in a way that I appreciate...it’s not fake. It’s genuine.
Jane, you’re a miracle worker. I’m definitely going to sign up for the June workshop. I feel like we’ve only touched the surface, and I want to go deeper. [My partner] does too, which is the big surprise for me. Prior to finding Jane, I suggested that we go to counseling. Our relationship wasn’t bad, but I knew it could be better. This opened that door. It’s cracked that window, and I know there is so much more for us. I look at him differently." - L. |