Are you guilty of one of my biggest pet peeves?

You know what makes me cringe? When people treat their partner’s orgasm like a scoreboard.

It’s great to be interested in your partner’s pleasure, but counting their climaxes or constantly seeking “proof” of their orgasm can actually be a huge turnoff. 

Why? Because it shifts the focus from connection to performance. 

How? It becomes more about you putting notches in your own belt, which can leave your partner feeling pressured or, worse, inadequate.

The truth is, not all orgasms are the same. The female body, in particular, is capable of a wide range of pleasurable sensations—some explosive, some gentle, some full-body, some subtle. All wonderful.

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