Are you someone who can talk about anything with your partner - except sex?
Wouldn’t it feel good to know you have the research-backed tools for having “The Talk” with your partner?
Using new language and methods from the Intimacy Workshop, you can create conversations with your partner about your needs and desires (without all the awkwardness and shame).
Both of you deserve to have your needs met in the bedroom (or the kitchen… or the car… whatever gets you going!)
Using new language and methods from the Intimacy Workshop, you can create conversations with your partner about your needs and desires (without all the awkwardness and shame).
Both of you deserve to have your needs met in the bedroom (or the kitchen… or the car… whatever gets you going!)
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You love each other, but…
Talking about sex feels impossible. Even talking about holding hands or kissing feels impossible. So much is going so well between you - except in this one area. You’ve been through counseling and you made progress. But you’re still not physically connecting and it’s causing major issues! You’re ready to let go of all that drama and feel ease, fun and play. |
But first, you need to have “The Talk”.
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“Dr Jane is a unique specialist who listens, helping clients navigate better solutions and outcomes to intimate partner issues. I would highly suggest her to anyone." - P.D. Google Review |
The Intimacy Workshop is a 5-module workshop that you can complete on your own, or with a partner, on your own time
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What’s included in The Intimacy Workshop?
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You’ll take the Bedroom Blueprint™ quiz and figure out your top barriers to connection. That way, as you get ready for The Talk, you’ll know more about who YOU really are. Your partner can take the quiz later so you can talk about that, too. |
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Release sexual shame and bodily held trauma. Even if you don’t identify as someone who’s experienced a lot of trauma in your life, day-to-day living causes small traumatic events for most people. Thinking about these things before you reach out to your partner to have The Talk will make it easier for you to communicate without shame (for either of you.) |
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Identify what you want in your intimate relationship while letting go of unrealistic expectations. You’ll get to the bottom of what’s really bothering you so that when you talk with your partner, you’re not just bringing them a laundry list of things that they’re doing wrong in the bedroom. |
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Get the courage up to have The Talk. You understand that there’s a whole lot more to intimacy issues between couples than just being turned on or not, you’ve let go of things from the past that were difficult, you know what you’re looking for and you’ve let go of unrealistic expectations. You’re ready to set up a time, place and specific intention to talk with your partner about your intimacy concerns. |
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This is it. A step-by-step guide to The Talk. How to start it. Where to have it. What to say so that you don’t hurt your partner’s feelings anymore than they’ve been hurt in the past. This is a customizable template that you can use when talking with your partner about intimacy, affection and connection. Included is a PDF with expert advice on what NOT to say. This whole program is designed to help you express yourself WITHOUT shaming or coercing your partner. It’s a consent-based, trauma informed program. |
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Hi, I’m Dr. Jane Guyn (she/her/hers)
I created The Intimacy Workshop because I wanted to provide a safe space for you to feel fluid and comfortable in your desires to connect without somehow hurting your partner’s feelings and making them feel inadequate. As a Professional Sex Coach and Core Energy Coach (and a woman who’s been married over 30 years), I know talking about intimacy can be fun once you’re comfortable with it. This program doesn’t just focus on sex and libido. We also look at ways that sexuality and intimacy intersect with power and attachment, the impact of the demands you both face on a daily basis, how to talk about impactful medical issues, and how the expression of intimacy in your relationship impacts your parenting and legacy. This is my easy to access online program for people who’re ready to level up their communication as a couple. |
Wondering if this has any chance of working in your relationship? I get you.
It’s so hard to imagine that talking about intimacy, affection or sex could ever be anything but torture.
But when you understand yourself better, and make every effort to understand your partner, you’ve got a great chance that this’ll go a whole lot better than you’ve feared.
Of course you’re apprehensive.
Good!
That means you’re alive and that something in you is moving and responding!
I invite you to get on a call and explore whatever it is that you’re feeling and we’ll decide together if this is the right next step for you.
Or, just jump in.
You got this.
It’s so hard to imagine that talking about intimacy, affection or sex could ever be anything but torture.
But when you understand yourself better, and make every effort to understand your partner, you’ve got a great chance that this’ll go a whole lot better than you’ve feared.
Of course you’re apprehensive.
Good!
That means you’re alive and that something in you is moving and responding!
I invite you to get on a call and explore whatever it is that you’re feeling and we’ll decide together if this is the right next step for you.
Or, just jump in.
You got this.