You love each other, but…
Talking about sex feels impossible. Even talking about holding hands or kissing feels impossible. So much is going so well between you - except in this one area. You’ve been through counseling and you made progress. But you’re still not physically connecting and it’s causing major issues! You’re ready to let go of all that drama and feel ease, fun and play. |
What’s included in The Intimacy Workshop?
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Release sexual shame and bodily held trauma. Even if you don’t identify as someone who’s experienced a lot of trauma in your life, day-to-day living causes small traumatic events for most people. Thinking about these things before you reach out to your partner to have The Talk will make it easier for you to communicate without shame (for either of you.) |
Get the courage up to have The Talk. You understand that there’s a whole lot more to intimacy issues between couples than just being turned on or not, you’ve let go of things from the past that were difficult, you know what you’re looking for and you’ve let go of unrealistic expectations. You’re ready to set up a time, place and specific intention to talk with your partner about your intimacy concerns. |
This is it. A step-by-step guide to The Talk. How to start it. Where to have it. What to say so that you don’t hurt your partner’s feelings anymore than they’ve been hurt in the past. This is a customizable template that you can use when talking with your partner about intimacy, affection and connection. Included is a PDF with expert advice on what NOT to say. This whole program is designed to help you express yourself WITHOUT shaming or coercing your partner. It’s a consent-based, trauma informed program. |
Hi, I’m Dr. Jane Guyn (she/her/hers)
I created The Intimacy Workshop because I wanted to provide a safe space for you to feel fluid and comfortable in your desires to connect without somehow hurting your partner’s feelings and making them feel inadequate. As a Professional Sex Coach and Core Energy Coach (and a woman who’s been married over 30 years), I know talking about intimacy can be fun once you’re comfortable with it. This program doesn’t just focus on sex and libido. We also look at ways that sexuality and intimacy intersect with power and attachment, the impact of the demands you both face on a daily basis, how to talk about impactful medical issues, and how the expression of intimacy in your relationship impacts your parenting and legacy. This is my easy to access online program for people who’re ready to level up their communication as a couple. |
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