The Talk is an online course for people who struggle to communicate about what goes on in the bedroom.​


Are you someone who can talk about almost anything with your partner - except sex?
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You love each other, but… 
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​Talking about sex is touchy as hell and almost always causes an argument. You want to bring it up… you know you need to bring it up… you’ve tried to bring it up, but the conversation feels almost impossible because every time you do bring it up - there’s a blow-up. 

It takes a long time to get over these blow ups, so weeks go by… months go by… sometimes years go by… but you’re still not having “The Talk.” It’s a veritable mine-field that you just don’t know how to navigate.

The Talk is an online course to help you change that.

Maybe it’s that you’re…
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  • ​Not having enough sex
  • Not having good sex
  • Having too many dry spells
  • Not knowing how to initiate sex when you’ve not been having it 
  • Wanting more variety in your sex life
  • Have a lack of passion
  • Have sexual performance issues
  • Have problems with orgasm
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And it’s tough because you’re best friends. You co-parent beautifully and you’re great roommates. Everything is going pretty well… except in this one area. You’ve been through counseling and learned to communicate better - but not about sex! In fact, sex wasn’t even on the table in those sessions.

But if you want to fix your sex life... you need to have The Talk.

The Talk is a research-backed sex-talk program for couples who are ready to fix their sex life.

In this course, you’ll learn how to:
  • Identify what’s actually keeping you from good sex
  • Know how to talk with your partner about sex without triggering their stuff
  • Get get clear about your own needs and desires - and how to talk about them
  • Avoid the “what not to say” mistakes… so you don’t make things worse
  • Plan and actually have The Talk you know you need to have

Both of you deserve to have your needs met in the bedroom (or the kitchen… or the car… whatever gets you going)!

The Talk is a 5-module workshop that you can complete on your own, or with a partner, on your own time.
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Everything that's included:​​
  • Immediate access to the online course 
  • 5 easy-to-consume modules (video or audio)
  • Customizable worksheets to help you get ready for The Talk
  • Printable guide with expert advice on what not to say
  • An exact template for how to have The Talk
  • Bonus: Guided meditations to help you get in the right mindset 

An in-depth look at the modules:
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​You’ll take the Bedroom Blueprint™ quiz and figure out your top barriers to connection. That way, as you get ready for The Talk, you’ll know more about who YOU really are.  Your partner can take the quiz later so you can talk about that, too.

​Become sensitive to your partner’s triggers around sex. Even if you don’t identify as someone who’s experienced a lot of trauma in your life, day-to-day living causes small traumatic events for most people. Thinking about these things before you reach out to your partner to have The Talk will make it easier for you to communicate without shame (for either of you.)

Identify the deeper needs in your intimate relationship. You’ll get to the bottom of what’s really bothering you so that when you talk with your partner, you’re not just bringing them a laundry list of things that they’re doing wrong in the bedroom.​

Find the courage to have The Talk. You understand that there’s a whole lot more to intimacy issues between couples than just being turned on or not, you’ve let go of things from the past that were difficult, you know what you’re looking for and you’ve let go of unrealistic expectations. You’re ready to set up a time, place and specific intention to talk with your partner about your intimacy concerns.

How to start it. Where to have it. What to say.
This is it. A step-by-step guide to The Talk.
This is a customizable template that you can use when talking with your partner about intimacy, affection and connection. Included is a PDF with expert advice on what NOT to say. This whole program is designed to help you express yourself without shaming or coercing your partner.  It’s a consent-based, trauma-informed program.
Hi, I’m Dr. Jane Guyn (she/her/hers)
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I’m a sex therapist who created The Talk because I wanted to provide a safe space for you to feel fluid and comfortable in your desires to connect without somehow hurting your partner’s feelings and making them feel inadequate.

As a Professional Sex Coach and sexologist (and a woman who’s been married almost 40 years), I know talking about intimacy can be fun once you’re comfortable with it.

This program doesn’t just focus on sex and libido. We also look at ways that sexuality and intimacy intersect with power dynamics and attachment, the impact of the demands you both face on a daily basis, and how the expression of intimacy in your relationship impacts your parenting and legacy.
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This is my easy-to-access online program for people who’re ready to level up their communication as a couple.
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We’ve found it incredibly helpful to work with Jane to break down some of the communication barriers we had around sex.
Taking that leap of faith and letting our guards down has helped us be more open with each other about sex and what we both want. Jane has helped instill confidence in us by providing tools and meaningful discussion to help improve our sex life. It’s also helped us in other areas of our relationship..

- CC & SC.
100% MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE

I know talking about sex can be thorny. If you’ve struggled with this for a while, you might wonder if a course like this can actually help. I get it, and I want you to feel completely comfortable buying this. That’s why we have a 100%, no-questions-asked guarantee. If you don’t feel like this course helped you successfully have The Talk, just let us know and we’ll refund you straight away. 

Life is short. Your sex life matters, and when you’re bottled up around it, it can cause a whole lot of stress and drain you, impacting every area of your life.

Even though your partner may not act like this matters to them, it almost always does. 

When you understand yourself better, and make every effort to understand your partner, having The Talk can go a whole lot better than you ever imagined.

Of course you’re apprehensive. 

Good! 

That means you’re alive and that you care. 

You got this.

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