The Pool Boy

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​“Did you see the story of the Christian college president?!”  

​It was a text from a current client. 

He’s the Bull in a Cuck-Hotwife-Bull relationship, a dynamic just like the one that allegedly got Jerry Falwell Jr. and his wife in heaps of trouble at Liberty University. ​

My client is “the Bull," a good looking young guy who joins “the Hotwife” while her husband “the Cuck” happily observes. (Google “Pool Boy” in case you missed it.)

He was intrigued by the Pool Boy story.

“I kinda feel bad for them being called out on their kink,” he said. 

“I know,” I texted.

“But”, I said, “It's hypocritical for him as the president of a university where the student honor code explicitly prohibits any sexual contact outside of a biblically-ordained marriage.” 

And of course, maybe the situation was just what President Falwell described - his wife’s illicit affair with a much younger man. Only the people involved will ever really know. Even the allegations have created a huge scandal at the university and nationally. 

The Cuck-Hotwife-Bull dynamic is a common sexual fantasy. But, even sexologists like me don’t know how often this dynamic is carried out in real life. In our society, it’s taboo to enjoy watching your wife with another man. Excitement goes up when something’s not allowed. 

For some, that’s wicked hot.

It was supposed to be private. Her taking pleasure from a man decades younger. Him watching from a chair in the corner as the pair performed.

Forbidden fruit. Suffice it to say, our eroticism sometimes surprises us. It doesn’t mind the rules, doesn’t show up when we want it. And sometimes it’s called by something very out of bounds. 

The Cuck-Hotwife-Bull dynamic combines man’s deepest fear - losing his wife to another man - with the desire of (some?) women to be the center of attention from more than one man. Powerful Medicine. 

Like riding a roller coaster. The rush of being dropped willingly from a 30 story building, getting in line for the ride of your life, it’s your turn, GET BUCKLED UP. 

Keep your hands in the car. 

5-4-3-2-1 

Go. 

And you’re off - one turn and the next, screaming until you’re back at the beginning. 

Are you ready to ride again? 


When I asked my Hot Wife Client if she enjoyed herself with my client The Bull, she said (in her beautiful southern drawl) “Yes ma'am. I’m livin’ the life most women only dream of.”

I guess that says it all. (At least for her.)