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would you like a sex snack?

3/29/2022

So, we started with the idea of sex snacking because it didn’t push her. It gave her a soft opening to intimacy. And it gave him the touch he craved.

He was starved for touch. She loved him, but didn’t have a lot of space in her life for intimacy. She was busy with all the things - the kids, the house, her business. So many things to do. Getting naked didn’t often make the list.

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speaking of head

3/15/2022

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Monday March 14th was International Pi Day. It was also Steak and BJ Day - a holiday created in the Czech Republic. On Steak and BJ Day, women cook steak and provide their partners with oral sex. This is in response to the cards, flowers, and chocolates purportedly given by men to women on Valentine’s Day a month earlier.

A lot of my clients talk to me about head - just not that kind.

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the faux O

3/9/2022

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Do you remember this amazing scene in the 1989 movie “When Harry Met Sally?”

Harry: "I think they have an okay time"

Sally: "How do you know"

Harry: "How do I know? I know"

Sally: "Because they...?"

Harry: "Yes, because they ..."

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checked out s e x

3/3/2022

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It was always easier when she kinda checked out when they did it. Or got drunk. Either way - she wasn’t all there. That way it didn’t feel so stressful.

Once when she was being vulnerable, she told him that there were times when she felt like she left her body during sex. That she went somewhere else - the ceiling in their room or even outside the window. He told me that he wondered when it happened.

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