What If Ryan Gosling Has All The Answers?

Most men have zero idea of what's going on with women.

But Ryan Gosling knows. He gets us. The smoldering eyes, perfect grooming. Yes, Ryan. Yes.

You don’t have to be a Full Ryan to do the Full Ryan. All that it takes is a little bit of basic hygiene.

I have a client who needs to learn to Ryan. ​

He's been married to a beautiful woman for long enough to have a 7-year-old son. He works from home, which means he never has to get dressed for work or worry about his grooming.


He lets his beard grow because he hates to shave. He doesn't get hair cuts because he doesn't have time. Some of the other everyday details of grooming aren't on his to-do list either.


His wife wants him to take better care of himself. She doesn't need The Full Ryan Gosling, but she does need everyday grooming.


When the three of us talked on a virtual coaching call, I asked him if he was willing to consider changing his habits. He was a full stop “no.” Absolutely not.


He thought his wife should accept him exactly the way he is.


She doesn't want to hurt his feelings, but she doesn't like kissing him or touching him when he's not clean and clean-cut.


Neither of them are getting their needs for connection met.


This may seem like a small problem. But to me a sexologist and relationship coach, no sex spells t-r-o-u-b-l-e.


Ryan Gosling is a sex symbol for lots of people - men and women alike. His sexy stare and impeccable grooming turn heads everywhere he shows up. But you can Ryan with the best if you’re just willing to try.


Hit me up if you’re wondering what love would be like if your partner made an effort.